Acts 2:46 "every day"
..."it is precisely in retreats of short duration that the human element [desires of the flesh] develops most easily. Nothing is easier than to stimulate the glow of fellowship in a few days of life together, but nothing is more fatal to the sound, sober, brotherly fellowship of everyday life." Life Together - Bonhoeffer p39
Events are such a draw for people. They are fun and exciting. They give us a new spirit of engagement. They get into our memories and stay there. One still remembers what was on the table for Thanksgiving three weeks ago but no one knows the breakfast of last Thursday. So why is Bonhoeffer so hard on short events? "Fatal"?
We can hold our breath for a short event. We can agree to disagree for a few days. We can make it through Spring Break with Uncle Fred because we know that it will end soon. We can "be nice" during the reception because we are headed home. The trouble is that we fool ourselves into thinking that since we can do this for a few moments or even days that we are redeemed. Our souls have been changed. And our ministry is done for the year. We have sacrificed our lives for four hours a day for a week. That is enough on the time clock. And we have been pleasant besides.
"What care I for the number of your sacrifices. I have had enough of whole burnt rams and fat of fatlings; in the blood of calves and lambs and goats I find no pleasure. Bring me no more worthless offerings. Your incense is loathsome to me. Your new moons and festivals I detest." Isaiah 1:11
However small your daily time with God is, it is better. If all you can do is one minute while on the john, telling Him that He is still God, it is better. We must attend to the God of the universe every day, every day, every day. It is no use to think that a fun date once a week or month is a relationship. It is a lie. Worse than that. It is a disease that will kill you. Every day...say something to the lover of your soul.